I'd bet folding money that you're going to see this, which is why I'm posting it here instead of putting it in an email to you.
I guess that what I've been trying to say in my recent angry posts is actually quite simple.
I'm not your confidante and you're not mine. For once in your life, respect somebody else's wishes and stay out of things where you are not needed or wanted.
There. Now I'm done with this subject.